Petals: These are commonly used at Burial Services, you can choose for immediate family only or for all those attending the service to put petals or flowers into the grave.   It is also fitting at a Memorial Service on or near water as a final tribute by family and friends. Alternatively you could use other items such as wood shavings if your loved one was a carpenter.  Your choices are endless.

A little English trivia around the meaning of the rose petal colours for scattering; red for true love, blue for mystery and love at first sight, white for peace or innocence, yellow for friendship and devotion, pink for grace and the joy of life, red and white together for united.